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Back in the 1970s, it might have been raining men, but today there's a veritable drought -- at least for two groups of single ladies.
The question of whether America's women have enough marriageable men was taken on by Brookings Institution senior fellow Isabel Sawhill and former senior research assistant Joanna Venator.
Their answer isn't all that reassuring for two distinct groups of women: college-educated women and black women.
Overall, men are not only earning less than they used to, but they're failing to enroll in colleges at the same rate as their female counterparts.
The result is that there are only 85 men for every 100 women who are 25 to 35 years old and who are college educated. The report may back up what single women with college degrees have been sensing for years: The pickings are slim.
That's the prime marrying age for Americans, given that men and women tend to be in their late 20s when they marry for the first time, according to the U. The changing demographics will have a wide-ranging impact on men and women, as well as on how they form -- or don't form -- families.
Given the shortage of college-educated men, highly educated women are likely to either look for men who have fewer qualifications (and likely earn less) than them, or else skip marriage entirely, the researchers said."Women are now more educated than men, meaning that they will necessarily face a shortage of marriage partners with the same level of education," Sawhill and Venator wrote.
"What we are likely to see in the future, then, is either women marrying 'down' educationally, or not marrying at all."But that idea of "marrying down" embodies a fair amount of elitism that may be hurting both men and women, said Jon Birger, a journalist and the author of "Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game," published in August by Workman Publishing."The whole concept of describing marrying a working-class guy as marrying down is offensive," Birger said.
"The notion that a man lacking a college degree is inferior I think is wrong.
I believe it's inevitable that we'll have an increase in mixed-collar marriages, where college-educated women marry men who are not college-educated."Online dating exacerbates the problem, said Birger, because people can check off if they want to see only profiles of potential dates with the same education level that they have.
That's increasing "assortative mating" -- when people seek out partners who are similar to them -- at the same time that the dating market is more imbalanced as college-educated women now outnumber their male counterparts, he added."Based on my conversations with single female friends, a lot of men take advantage of the lopsided gender ratios," Birger said.
"College-educated women who are unwilling to date noncollege-educated guys are giving college-educated men too much leverage in the dating market."Eventually, Birger predicted, Americans will become more accepting of "mixed-collar" marriages, a trend he already sees in the black community, where black college-educated women are more comfortable marrying men without college degrees. Each woman without children and who has a high school education actually has more than 2.5 men to pick from, the researchers found.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating